Hearing; Goodbye my lover

Listening to Back To Bedlam of James Blunt with a certain regards to a song and a story!
The song names Goodbye my lover and for the first time, I was listening it attentively. The main reason of this curiosity was a love story that I may write in future but now just to recall myself, I brought the lyrics down here! It's a painful goodbye to the one that got away. a great song for the people who are still suffering of! Somehow interesting!

Did I disappoint you or let you down?
Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown?
'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun,
Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won.
So I took what's mine by eternal right.
Took your soul out into the night.
It may be over but it won't stop there,
I am here for you if you'd only care.
You touched my heart you touched my soul.
You changed my life and all my goals.
And love is blind and that I knew when,
My heart was blinded by you.
I've kissed your lips and held your head.
Shared your dreams and shared your bed.
I know you well, I know your smell.
I've been addicted to you.

Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

I am a dreamer but when I wake,
You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take.
And as you move on, remember me,
Remember us and all we used to be
I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile.
I've watched you sleeping for a while.
I'd be the father of your child.
I'd spend a lifetime with you.
I know your fears and you know mine.
We've had our doubts but now we're fine,
And I love you, I swear that's true.
I cannot live without you.

Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

And I still hold your hand in mine.
In mine when I'm asleep.
And I will bear my soul in time,
When I'm kneeling at your feet.
Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.
I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow.
I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.

The song is impressive but I never like a poor lover! A love could be always respectful event hough the lover does not deserve it!
I believe whoever who falls in love , has to be proud of him/herself. A pure love is coming from a good heart and beautiful soul! You can not be a real human being unless you understand what the love means! It's not related to age, religion, culture, nationality or what else! It's just a part of humanity if we are not so selfish to ask everything for ourselves!
There is one Iranian philosopher of ancient age names Rumi who says:
A lover knocked the door of his beloved one!
She asked: Who is that?
Lover said: This is me.
She didn't open the door! And the lover knocked again while thinking!
She asked the same question and he replied: It's you!
She open the door and smiled to the lover who was not thinking about himself anymore!